AUTHOR
Our Love is Not Lost
"I was proud as I watched groups mature; the collective change was satisfying. The culture shifts didn't happen overnight, but when you have a strong team that sets a norm of how to behave, it's much more difficult to have positive momentum disrupted. They become the force to be reckoned with."
Reflective Questions:
What does it mean to lead with love in business and life?
Where have I assumed love must look a certain way?
What relationships or environments reinforce resentment instead of healing?
What new forms of contribution feel aligned with who I am now?
How can I redirect my energy toward reciprocity and purpose?
This chapter explores how profound loss can become a catalyst for transformation rather than despair. After years of personal loss, grief, and emotional depletion, Kinga steps out of environments that reinforce bitterness and chooses instead to reroute love toward impact, community, and meaningful human connection.
The chapter challenges the cultural narrative that motherhood is the only path to profound love. It reframes “lost love” as “redirected love” — a shift that unlocks purpose, leadership, and a more expansive definition of contribution. By stepping away from cycles of resentment and scarcity, the story reveals how personal heartbreak can evolve into a broader mission to strengthen others, build healthier communities, and cultivate relationships grounded in honesty, reciprocity, and human dignity.